THE PREMIUM SELF COACHING GUIDE FOR SERIOUS SINGLES

The Dating Reset

For Singles Who Refuse to Settle for Less

A real, practical path to dating with clarity, standards and self respect. Written by Ernest Toho, Africa's King of Matchmaking and Dating Coach, from over thirteen years of hands on field practice as a singles matchmaker and relationship counsellor.

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281 pages 18 chapters 50-question worksheet 13 Hard Truths
The Dating Reset book cover, by Ernest Toho
Date Right.
Love Right.

Most people do not date on purpose.

They date on autopilot, dragging undeclared intentions, unhealed history and unclear standards into every new connection, then wonder why the pattern keeps repeating.

The Dating Reset is not another list of dating tips. It is a complete, practitioner-built methodology for getting honest with yourself first, so every decision you make after that is finally your own.

The Dating Reset book styled with coffee and reading glasses, a quiet moment of self-coaching

WHAT'S INSIDE

Everything you need for a real reset

18

Chapters, Six Parts

From the foundation of who you are, to knowing your market, building your filter, and navigating the pool with clarity instead of chaos.

50

Question Self-Discovery Worksheet

A fully fillable, printable worksheet built into the PDF itself. Work through it at your own pace, on screen or on paper.

13

Hard Truths

The core principles that run underneath every chapter, distilled into a standalone reference you will return to long after the first read.

A-Z

Glossary of Original Terms

Filter First, Default Position, Dating Angle and more: the specific framework and vocabulary of the Ernest Toho methodology, defined in one place.

12

Behavioural Patterns Named

The Anatomy of the Pool chapter names the exit, extraction, manipulation and identity patterns costing you time and clarity, so you can spot them before they cost you more.

1

Complete Framework

The Six Steps Dating Life Reset: a summarised, repeatable framework designed for continued use long after you finish the book.

Ernest Toho, Africa's King of Matchmaking and Dating Coach

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Ernest Toho

Africa's King of Matchmaking & Dating Coach · Founder and CEO, Justified Connect Singles World

Widely regarded as Africa's foremost singles matchmaker, Ernest has spent over thirteen years dedicated exclusively to the cause of serious singles across Nigeria and South Africa, building a reputation for precision, discretion and results that no algorithm alone can replicate.

Every principle in this book was tested against real coaching, counselling and matchmaking engagements, not written from theory. He shares it here in full, for the first time, as a complete practitioner methodology rather than a collection of tips.

The Dating Reset hardcover, angled view

READY WHEN YOU ARE

The Dating Reset: For Singles Who Refuse to Settle for Less

One PDF. Instant download. Read on any device, print the worksheet, and start your reset today.

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Date Right. Love Right. Get Matched. Have Fun.

QUESTIONS

Before you decide

Is this book for men, women, or both? +
Both. The book includes dedicated chapters written directly to women and to men, alongside a shared framework that applies to every serious single regardless of gender.
What format does it come in? +
A single 281 page PDF, designed for both screen reading and printing, including a fully fillable worksheet section with real interactive form fields.
Can I print the worksheet? +
Yes. The worksheet was specifically designed to be printed and completed by hand if you prefer that to typing directly into the PDF.
What if it is not right for me? +
It is covered by a 30-day money back guarantee. If it is not for you, request a refund within 30 days of purchase.